On 21 January 1888 Rhoda wrote about her mother, also called Rhoda.
Saturday Jan 21st .This afternoon Kate took Mother out for a drive, the first time since her illness, I am so glad dear Mother is getting better and is able to get out a little; I do hope she will improve, I am sure.I was wondering what her mother's illness might have been but then I remembered that I had a copy of a newspaper cutting that someone in the family had kept. It was an obituary of Rhoda's mother that had been published in a church magazine. I've yet to find the source but I think it would have been Wesleyan Methodist or Methodist because the Andrew family were active members of their local church community. The obituary describes in quite a bit of detail the long-term ill health of Rhoda.
In Memorium (Mrs. Andrew)Since I knew the late Mrs Andrew she was somewhat of a recluse, through delicate health, mainly. During her whole life she was a fond and kind mother, a most devoted wife, very charitable and good to everyone; would divide her loaf with any who needed. Several of her babies died in infancy, and she grieved over the lost ones. She often seemed at death's door, from frequent attacks of asthma. Then another complaint gradually grew on her, which disabled her from walking much and getting to God's house regularly, also the necessary change of scene and fresh air. And being unwilling to let a doctor advise and help her she consequently suffered most severely in late years. Though the change of climate into the north improved her so much that there was little trouble with her chest, until that severe attack of influenza some years ago which weakened her so much that she never quite got over it. Not many knew how easily fatigued and how unfit for work she was. But patient and persevering how she would do the part when felt it her duty to do in the home. Through feeble health she did not in the outside public shine as brightly as many. She will, I feel sure, have stars in her crown. She leaves a good name to her children and grandchildren. May they through grace Divine follow in her footsteps and meet at God's right hand.So what facts was I able to glean from the obituary?
M.A. Midgley[Church publication]
- She was sad because a number of her children died. I'm not surprised. She had ten children and only two of them survived childhood. After Rhoda's death at the age of 30 her sister Mary (my husband's direct ancestor) was the only surviving child.
- She had frequent attacks of asthma
- She had a severe attack of influenza 'some years ago'
- She had another 'complaint' but refused to see a doctor
- The family attended church
From other family information I know that the church they attended was the Woodlands Wesleyan at Central Mologa. The church was just up the road from the Andrew's farm that Rhoda's father and grandfather selected in the mid 1870s. I searched Trove for mentions of Woodlands Wesleyan church and found several articles. In 1877 the church was badly damaged in a wind storm - I think the community must have rebuilt it - and in 1887 they celebrated an anniversary.
|McIvor Times and Rodney Advertiser (Heathcote), 22 Feb 1877|
|Kerang Times and Pyramid Hill Gazette, 8 Feb 1887|
And the last one I found was about a bazaar to raise funds for a parsonage (possibly at Kerang).
|Kerang Time and Swan Hill Gazette, 29 May 1888|
Because the last newspaper item coincided with the year of Rhoda's diary I was able to check to see if she had written about the family's involvement in the fund-raising. And sure enough...
Friday May 4th.
Mrs Hare and J. Wood came today, and of course the baby too, bringing their bazaar things.
Friday May 11th.
Mary went to Pyramid in the afternoon, Miss Baker came in the evening. We sat up till late at night, doing Bazaar work.
Thursday May 17th
.Mary had Jane Hiscock over today, to help with some Bazaar work. Jane brought over her contribution.
Friday May 18th.
We went to Mrs Innocent's this afternoon for some fruit, and she was not at home, so went on for Miss Baker. We called again as we came back, found her at home this time, but could not get fruit tonight. Mrs I. is coming over tomorrow, so she said she would bring the quinces with her. Miss B. and Mary are working away tonight, for the bazaar, of course. Now I must go and help them, so no more for my "Diary", tonight.
Saturday May 19th.
Mrs Innocent came over in the afternoon. We were very busy, finishing baking cakes for the Bazaar. We got cleared away and swept up by night, so that's one good thing done.
Monday May 21st.
We washed today. In the afternoon Louisa Hare came up with the dolls she dressed for the Bazaar.
Thursday May 24th.
Queen's birthday today, Bazaar opens today.
Saturday May 26th.
The Bazaar was a great success and I'm so glad. It is nice when a thing is a success.And finally, for this blog, an entry where Rhoda again mentions her mother.
Monday June 4th.
Mary and I took Mother for a drive this afternoon. Just up to the Church, we made a Catalogue of the books in the Sunday School Library. We moved the organ, to the other side of the Church, because it is warmer there for the winter, and swept out the Church. So we did a good afternoon's work. No more for tonight. Goodnight.
And goodnight from me too.